Are you actually a team?
A blunt check for couples who are tired of carrying too much, avoiding too much, and wondering if it's normal.
Blended family life is hard. But some of what you're carrying is not inevitable.
The problem usually isn't love. It's not the kids. It's not the ex. It's lack of structure.
When one person carries the whole emotional load while the other stays comfortable, that's not teamwork. When you avoid the hard conversations because you're already managing so much, that's not peace. That's a ticking clock.
This check will show you whether you're actually functioning as a team. Sixteen statements. Two minutes. Then you'll see exactly where you stand.
How it works
You'll rate 16 statements from 1 to 3. Answer honestly, not how you wish things were. There are no wrong answers, only an accurate picture.
Where should we send your report?
Your score is ready. Pop your details in and we'll show your result right now, plus email you the full Reality Check report to work through together.
Your score isn't about how much you love each other. It's about whether you're operating as a team.
This is built on the H.O.M.E. framework
Honesty, Ownership, Momentum, Ecosystem. The four things that turn two people managing chaos into one team running a home on purpose.